ABOUT THE PROBLEMS OF SUICIDAL FEELINGS:

GUIDANCE FOR THOSE ONES WHOM ARE WANTING TO SUICIDE:

1. Do not rush in. Go to bed if possible, and Pray to God for the answer to your problem, and sleep. The next day, most people would have a dream of GOD talking with them, and that HE is replying to any questions you have. Do as HE wishes. HE does know best, HE does care and HE does love you.
2. Many of those whom suicide, in fact, go to hades or hell, for 8 months of sorrow and crying, before being released, this is on average. We do NOT want anyone to go there. So we advise against suicide.
3. GOD has a purpose for you. ASK HIM in Prayer about why you were born, and follow on from the dream. Ask in the dream-state: “Please help myself to remember this dream”.
4. Think of your loved ones, everyone has at least one loved one. If you suicide, they would be unhappy, sorrowful, feel traumatised, full of grief, even anger. And you would be responsible for that, as well. Think of whom you would like to give a smile to. Often, a suicidal person will, if they sleep instead, will wake up feeling better, more well, in the morning.
5. Before you say that “this author does not understand”, in fact, realise I have way back in past, tried suicide several times, for my own reasons, and each time recovered, sometimes in hospital. I sought and sought for the answer, and found a Wholistic Healer and counsellor; and also went to a Assembly of God Church service, talked with the Pastor, and since then, even 15 years later, I do not want to suicide, at all, and hardly think of it at all, if I do, then my thought is: “No, that is not good enough”, and will not follow that thought. I then change my subject to things I like to think, such as prayer and affirmations, even meditations of: “Peace on Earth on God's Terms, Forever” and that is good for anyone to think, as the energies of those thoughts do have a good effect on this planet, sooner or later. And doing that, I often feel my mind has peace of mind. This helps my life and I will NOT suicide. Other subjects can help, try to make the subjects of your thoughts, kind, good, nice and beautiful.
6. If a person says: “No-one cares”, the reply is, every time: “Jesus cares”.
7. Apply for a voluntary job: do some extra work in a voluntary job for a Charity. And realise other volunteers might also want to be your new friend. This cheers most people up.
8. PLAN something for the future, something good, something nice, try organising with a friend to meet you in town for a cup of coffee. Even every week, try that. Keep on thinking about it: are you smiling now? If so, you just found the cure for your suicidal problem. If not smiling, find something else to plan for the future. I wanted to be a Charity worker for years, and was depressed, yet later a friend organised for myself, a legal document to start a new Charity. These days, I'm working on computer for this Charity, and smile more, too. Did you realise that your emotions and your thoughts are intertwined? So if you think: “I like drinking coffee” your emotion will be truthful, it could be joyful on that thought. Sad subjects of the thoughts, lead to sad emotions. Joyful thoughts make people smile. You might even want to write a list of good things that make you smile, and go down the list, reading it, and noting the emotion of it. This to help you learn how to be joyful. Maybe go to a place to meet with others and drink a milkshake: something nice.
9. NO PERSON GETS AWAY WITH IT. Not in any way. This phrase is a problem, some criminals think if the Police don't catch them at a crime, that they “got away with it”. Yet, it's a lie, because, Spiritual Law covers it all, and it's automatic, there IS a penalty or price to pay for every crime, and the price or cost to pay, happens later (often in the Afterlife, where people's souls go when their physical body dies). If you have been a criminal, repent right away, and MAKE AMENDS: Give money to the poor, give money to your victims, put an envelope with banknotes in someone's letterbox that you thieved from, to help make amends. If the making of amends is enough, then, the penalty and cost or price to pay, is lesser or even paid off, to avoid certain horrible things that would otherwise happen to you.
10. All people are requested to leave money in their Last Will, to the poor, to a decent Charity such as the Red Cross, just to be helpful to others, yet, it could be the one thing that pays your spiritual debt, so the circumstances are mitigated, that way.
11. Sometimes moving home can cheer a person. Leave behind the suicidal feelings and thoughts, and make a new start.
12. Eat 2-3 little pieces of chocolate of around 1cm x 1cm x 1cm in size, every day. Do NOT eat more or it won't work. Chocolate is a natural antidepressant. If you wish, try dark chocolate, or in New Zealand, “Energy Chocolate”. Drinking grapefruit juice or eating grapefruit, is another good antidepressant. Or go to a Natural Health Shop and buy some St John's Wort, take as recommended, this is NOT for children because its' toxic in large amounts. Maybe go to a Homeopath, have an appointment and talk with him or her, they will probably help you with a prescription. Study Bach Flower Remedies and find what type of Bach Flower Remedy you need most, and these can sometimes be bought at Natural Health Shops, you might need to shop around to find the supplier. Wholistic Therapists are good people, too, and often can advise you about how to solve the problem.
13. Instead of getting drunk, go to a good restaurant with a friend, and have a nice meal. 1 glass of wine is enough. Don't go to those loud rock and roll parties, because the quality of people there is poor, full of drugs and deals and drunkenness, and violence.
14. It would be better if you can, to visit your relatives, in the old folks homes and hospitals, go to visit people you like, and write many letters to your loved ones. Telephone your relatives and especially those in old folks homes or hospices.
15. Find a good and nice subject that you like to do, such as board games etc., and find a decent CLUB to join. If you don't know how to play backgammon, for example, yet want to make new friends, find a good backgammon club and realise someone is there that would be pleased to teach you how to play backgammon.
16. Fashion is fickle, comes and goes, and tinsel and baubles are worse, those things are NOT good. This seen through “the eyes of Spirit”. We are warned against those things, and also warned against modern music: rock and roll, since they say, that causes violence in society. I do not believe we can listen to rock and roll and such things AND ALSO have peace of mind. The Spirit has said: “modern music companies are greedy”. It will NOT help you to go to a rock concert or similar. Often, it is NOT joyful, you just thought it was. Those ones want your money because they want to take their drugs for the rest of their lives, live in mansions and more, that's why they try to trap people into buying that music, concerts, recordings and all. Instead of being shallow, dress modestly and with good taste, and it does not matter if it's in fashion or not, if you are dressed modestly, decently.
17. Movies these days, are appalling, expensive and not at all of any use. If you want a movie to see, try one that gives a good education and purity, better if its' Christian and can be in fact, so good.
18. Consider going to Church. That might help. If you like modern music, try the Pentecostal Churches since they do have music that is Christian yet does use electric guitars, drums and all.
19. If you have as part of your diet, something you really like yet is more or less “junk food” such as coca-cola, try cutting out ONE of those foods or drinks, and 6 weeks later of not drinking coca-cola:try one glass: has your mood “lifted”: are you more cheerful? Some favourite foods you may be allergic to, give up one of them for 6 weeks, and then try one serve of the same thing: if you get a headache all of a sudden, or your heart is not beating right, or you get a hot flush on the brow, or other uncomfortable symptoms: you just found your allergy. Mark on the calendar, what food or drink you temporarily gave up on, to keep track.
20. Some people get depressed and not know why, until they quit on eating meat, and then they are joyful. So quit on the meat for 6 weeks, and then try eating some, if you feel your mood lift then it's ok to eat that, if not, even if your moods crash down so low at that first piece of meet after 6 weeks, then, you have that problem, and would need to consider a vegetarian diet: or pescaterian, Pescatarians eat fish, shellfish, seafood, nuts, vegetables, cereals and grains, fruits and dairy products such as yoghurt, cream, milk and so forth. Look on the back of the block of cheese at the supermarket, if it says in the list of ingredients “rennet” then it's NOT vegetarian since rennet is processed calve's stomachs. If it says “vegetarian rennet” or “vegetable enzymes” etc., then it really IS vegetarian. I buy Alpine Brand, that lists on the back: “non-animal rennet”, and "Suitable for Vegetarians". Organic diets are best. Vegan diet is too limited, since people NEED milk or cheese in our diets, because of the genetic familiarity that mankind has been drinking milk for thousands of years. And that all Mammals, such as people, need milk, cheese or cream in their diets.
21. Often the cause of depression is long-forgotten childhood experiences. A good Wholistic Therapist can find the problem. 
22. IF you have a problem such as depression, sometimes it' helps to think: "Yes, I have a problem, yet this is NOT of a great Cosmic Importance". This can help get the person thinking things in perspective: is it of any huge importance if you eat an extra piece of chocolate?
23. Smile. When walking along the sidewalk or footpath, and there's a mother with a little toddler walking along: smile, smile, smile. Someone said: "smiles are free, give some". 
24. Said to be a cure for suicidalness: buy Complan, a powdered drink with plenty of vitamins and minerals, buy the Vanilla flavour, make it with milk if possible, drink 3 x daily for 8 weeks. That is very nutritious, yet can be rather of a high price. Cancer patients have been recommended this, by a doctor, yet made with water, it's not a cure yet helps the patient feel more healthy. At first, for the first 3 days, the person will not like the taste or smell, yet on the 4th day, they change their minds as their taste buds have changed: and they say: "it's delicious!". I went through that, too, its' called an "acquired taste", something we get used to, awhile later. After the 8 weeks, you might want to drink more, that's ok. 
25. IF someone says to you: "I hope you die". Say: "I will NOT tolerate that". Do not wait around for an argument: leave the place and go elsewhere to calm down and soothe yourself. 
26. Most of the mentally sick are not actually that, their signs and symptoms might be similar, yet the problem is either: an allergy to cane sugar. OR: Hypoglycemia.
27. And little children often line up their toys: for fun. It is NOT a symptom nor sign of autism. People are way too quick to send a person to a hospital for no real problem. You could see someone crying in public and tell the local hospital about it, the person could have just received news that their child has died in an accident, but even at the hospital, they would be called "depressed", put on chemical pills that don't work. Please do NOT go around diagnosing like that.